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•  Surgery Preparation •  Sibling Support
•  Medical Play •  Outpatient Services
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Support for Siblings of Hospitalized Children

Helping Brothers and Sister Cope When a Child Goes to the Hospital

Give honest answers about the reason for hospitalization that are appropriate to his or her level of understanding.  Encourage the child to ask questions and express feelings.
Preparing and planning are just as important for the healthy child as for the child who is sick.  Be honest before, during and after the hospital stay
"Play" about hospital experiences with dolls, puppets or people.  This is a good way for children to express feelings when they may be uncomfortable talking about their feelings.
Read stories about hospitals or encourage the child to make his/her own story about what it's like to have a brother or sister spend time in the hospital.
Encourage the healthy child to visit the hospitalized child if possible.  This can help to clear up misunderstandings or fears.  Talk to your child's nurse or a child life specialist about this opportunity.
 

 

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Common Reactions to a Sibling's Hospital Stay

  • Temporary changes in eating and/or sleeping
  • Withdrawn behavior
  • Attention getting behaviors at home or school
  • Anger
  • Regression of behavior such as bed wetting or thumb sucking

Most of these behaviors are temporary and will be resolved within a short time.  Not all children express their feelings in these ways, but how they respond is affected by several factors including:

•  Age •  Length of hospital stay
•  Seriousness of condition •  Amount of time separated from parents
•  Quality of explanations and answers to child's questions •  How well their normal routine is able to be maintained
Past hospital/health care experiences Amount of attention to the child's feelings

Child Life Specialists can assist you with questions relating to how your healthy child at home is coping.  You can reach a Child Life Specialist at the Penn State Children's Hospital at childlife@hmc.psu.edu

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This page was last updated on September 10, 2007
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